Wednesday, March 30, 2011

spring fling

School's out.  School's out.  Teacher let the monkeys out.
-Opa Schneider


First things first, we got a new car (well sorta)!  We bought a lightly used Toyota Rav-4, beautiful blue car!  It is our first big purchase as Mister & Misses and the entire experience was wonderful!  I think that says a lot about our marriage that a big decision like buying a car was a completely positive experience.  Not to mention all the help we received from our St. Charles family and all the wonderful friends and acquaintances of my grandparents.  They called it the "handshake deal," and let me tell you it was an experience that solidified our home here in St. Charles.


I think God laughed when we got the car because the next day, when we were attending our cousin Rachel's birthday party 40 minutes away, it snowed.  And I mean SNOWED!  The picture above is in the middle of the snow when we made it to Tiffany and Kevin's for the party.  Middle of March and it's snowing...ridiculous.  The car drove great, my hubby really knows how to make his way in snow and we made it there and back safely.



Back to the birthday celebration,  it just happens to be Miss Rachel's 5th birthday this month on the 31st and we celebrated as a family on Saturday at the Tibb household.


Cassie enjoyed the party, but spent much of the time babysitting.  She looks like she's doing a great job with the birthday girl's sister, Ally.


Here's the birthday Momma and her gorgeous sister and Baby Caleb.  The party was hosted beautifully, I might add, and despite the missing guests (due to snow and other trips) it was a grand success.  The birthday girl said herself that it was "the funnest day ever."


Evan, my handsome ring-bearer, was the life of the party.  He even tried to teach the whole kid's table how to smile for a picture.  Opps, Caleb seems confused.


There was a whole lot of Grandpa lovin' going on and Ally even snuck down from the playroom for a little one-on-one time.


 Miss Rachel was one busy birthday bee during the party.  I could barely catch a snapshot :)  I finally got one during one of the many chasing games which were egged on by none other that Mr. Weir.



During present time, we caught a rare glimpse of Tiff's hula hooping skills.  Good thing Aaron & I gave Rachel that pink hula hoop!  K-K even tried it out!


No one was surprised that these two gents, Kev and my Hubby, drank a couple beers and talked about all the exciting stuff coming up for Better Life.  They can't get enough!


It was a fabulous party and a great kick-off to my spring break!

Spring break is slightly different when you are getting your Masters and working a 40 hour a week job, but it is still relaxing.  I must admit, I'd rather be in Jamaica...



BUT I have been able to spend some time with my husband and check out some townhomes for our upcoming move.


Let me tell ya, I am ready for spring to REALLY get here.  Warm weather, no more snow.  I'm ready...bring it on!


Spring = warm weather = new life = EASTER!  Can't wait to dye eggs and celebrate Jesus' resurrection together with my amazing family!

Monday, March 21, 2011

a very merry birthday!

A birthday is just the first day of another 365-day journey around the sun.  Enjoy the trip.  
~Author Unknown


Today is my brother's beautiful girlfriend's birthday!  Happy Birthday Veronica!  Many many more!  We wish we could celebrate with you, but I am sure Tad has some tricks up his sleeve.


Sunday, March 20, 2011

i feel so much spring within me!

Spring is nature's way of saying, "Let's party!"  
~Robin Williams


Today is March 20th, the First Day of Spring, and my husband could not be happier.  He HATES winter and he gets to go to Phoenix for some extra warm weather this week too.  Spoiled...

Warm weather makes me think about all the things about my life that I love, so I decided to make a list of some of the things I have been thankful for this week!

#1  My Husband

Spring always re-energizes our relationship.  We both love being outside and this warm weather reminds me of last year when March meant our wedding was only 3 months away.  It's crazy to think that we only have 3 more months until our 1 Year Anniversary.  Fr. Don talked about our wedding in his homily this Saturday at Mass, and told me before Mass started that he loved being a part of such a beautiful ceremony.  Mass is always special at Borromeo because it is the church where we got married.


Sometimes I wish I could re-live that day.  It was the best day of my life.


I am so excited to move into a new townhouse/ apartment, get a puppy, and celebrate our anniversary in the coming months.  I love my hubby!

#2  My Family

Family has always been important to me, I am so glad we are living in the same city and state as my family and family-in-law.  I love, love, love being able to see them anytime I want.


I am so glad I no longer call my Mom every day, now I just get to see her and talk to her in person.


And I get to be here for all of Cassie's special events.  Like the school Talent Show, where she made everyone cry with her beautiful voice.  I was so proud.


The eighth grade dance was pretty impressive and a fun experience for Cassie's class.  They are all ready to graduate and move on to the next chapter of their lives.


And I am home everytime Tad comes home.  I am not looking forward to the time I will be separated from him during his military career, so it is important to me to spend lots of time with him now.  This picture is not, coincidentally, one of him at home, but he and Veronica look so beautiful I had to include it.  Not to mention it is right before the Military Ball, during which he got a reward for outstanding performance during training.

#3  My pups

Penny is my love.  She is loyal, loving, and always there for me.  We have spent almost 10 years together and I love her like I do every member of my family.  


She certainly enjoys the warm weather.  Along with her buddy...


Doesn't look like a nine-year-old dog to me...


She and Aaron have quite a time playing together outside.  Looks like someone is jealous...


That's ok Marley, you get love too, even though Aaron spends most his time taunting you.

I love Penny and seeing her recover from a black eye (actually it was more like a bloody eye-ball) and act like a puppy again.

#4  Faith

Faith is truly the foundation of my life.  Without God and his Son, I would not have any of the blessings of this list or the hope and positivity I possess for my future.  God has truly blessed my life and continues to every day.


Everything that has happened to me in my life thus far was part of God's plan.  And what a wonderful plan it has been.


Aaron and I were very involved in choosing every aspect that went into our Wedding Mass.  I am thankful that God was the most important part of our wedding.  Faith in God and in the love my husband has for me is what makes my life truly awe-some.

#6  Cousin Time

This weekend we spent some pretty great cousin time with Tiffany, Kevin, and their beautiful girls Rachel and Ally.


Rachel was one of my flower girls and she had a blast at the wedding.  She collected quite a few bags of our jelly bean favor bags.  We stayed the night at the Tibb House this weekend.  We enjoyed a yummy fish dinner and played lots of games with the girls.  We also got the pleasure of watching a movie with Kevin and Tiff and shared some great stories with each other.  They have done quite a bit of traveling in their day and we hope to have some fun adventures ourself. Europe I hope you are ready because we are planning on visiting you on our next big vacation.


Ally enjoyed the jelly beans at the wedding too, and some dance-time with the Maid of Honor.


I had to put this picture in because it was hilarious that the dress Tiffany wore as the official "backstage" Mom was almost the exact same color as the bridesmaid dresses.  She fit in perfectly.  Kind of ironic considering she was a flower girl almost 29 years to the day in my parents wedding on our Wedding Day.

#7  The soon-to-be addition to our family

Ever since gettin' hitched, Aaron and I have been looking forward to adding a bundle of fluff to our family and we are FINALLY getting a puppy this summer.


I mean seriously, look at that adorable face.  We cannot wait to play outside, take walks with, and show off our new puppy.



We have debated what gender we would like the pup to be and I think we are pretty solid on getting a boy.  I cannot wait to share the news of his arrival into the Weir family in a few months.  Our pup might even get to play in the water like the pup above.


I am so grateful for all the wonderful things in my life, this list is not the be all end all of my list.  I am also thankful for many other things, including my wonderful, supportive friends.  I have not found that truly special friend here in St. Charles yet, but we have only been back in town for a short time and I have been beyond busy with school, work, and building the Weir household.


The next big holiday is Easter and I can't help but put a few cute bunny pictures on my blog for you to enjoy.  So cute.

Chicks are an Easter thing too, and they also make me think of spring and warm weather.  Unfortunately I can't fully enjoy the warm weather all week long, because my hubby will be out of town on a business trip to Phoenix, AZ and I am performing in the Lindenwood Chorus' Spring Concert.  Not to mention we are in the process of buying a new car and looking for our new home.  Have a warm, springy week everyone, I will be a busy gal, but a very thankful one for this beautiful weather!

Wednesday, March 9, 2011

spring is bustin' out all over

If you've never been thrilled to the very edges of your soul by a flower in spring bloom, maybe your soul has never been in bloom.  ~Terri Guillemets


So spring has sprung, well, almost :/  When it was so warm and lovely a week ago I was hopeful that it would not get below 45 again or threaten to snow.  I was very wrong.  Fortunately the snow we had melted promptly (over about 24 hours) and the chill has not set in too deep.  The trees behind the house are getting buds and that means soon we won't be able to see the neighbors behind us way back in the woods because there will be a wall of green instead.  And let me tell you, that wall of green is gorgeous.  Aaron complains all winter long because he is confined inside and I am so ready, not only for myself, but for him to get outside and kick those winter blues in the bottom.


Grandmama and Opa had some rather springy flowers on their kitchen table when Aaron and I ate there last.  Aren't they purty?  They remind me of the flowers we used for our wedding and reception.


It may be the pink flowers, though.  The centerpiece is beautiful no matter how you look at it.  

As usual, I got into the holiday "theming" spirit and decided to put up the Easter decorations EARLY.  No big surprise here.  This, of course, led to a trip to Walgreens to be the first Mr. & Mrs. in St. Charles to purchase Easter candy.  I just couldn't stand looking at the green and red peanut M&Ms on the coffee table anymore.  


My husband now has quite the array of snack choices in his office, most of which will not be eaten until this summer because there are so many.  I am sure when it is time for the traditional Easter baskets on Easter morning there will be even more candy to add to the pile.

I got the Easter decorations just in time for the arrival of two very special people, my wonderful brother Tad and his lovely girlfriend Veronica.  Tad is on spring break this week and Veronica came home to St. Charles with him to spend some time meeting our family.  I took some photos, all of which Tad decided to make difficult by refusing to smile, and I think I got some special shots of the two lovebirds.


Seeing Tad so happy is all I could ever want for him in life and I think the way his face looks in the photo below tells it all.


Cute, cute, and more cute!

After our impromptu photo session and church, we went for a family dinner/surprise birthday dinner Lewis & Clark's on Main Street St. Charles.  I know I have said it before, but I will say it again, I love Main Street.  Aaron took me on our first date near Main Street, I celebrated with my bridesmaids on Main Street, my family has had many special meals at Lewis & Clark's, and Aaron and I have made a point to make date night a Main Street event as well.  It is literally the cutest thing you have ever seen.  Unique, antique, and beautiful shops, restaurant, coffee shops, and homes line the cobblestone street.  Not to mention the vibrant history of Lewis & Clark is celebrated here every summer.  Picture a small town historic Main Street and you are picturing Main Street St. Charles.

Getting back to dinner, here is the birthday boy (turning 50 no less!) and his beautiful family.


My mom is Godmother to one of the twins and our family has been close friends with them for years so it was special to celebrate with them.

Grandmama & Opa joined us for the family part of the dinner and sat next to Aaron and myself so  they could get to know Veronica.


Aren't they sweet?  They loved talking to Veronica, whom they had never met, and jokingly told her that perhaps Buffy should be the judge of character.

There is a joke Opa like to play on boyfriends/ girlfriends of anyone in our family which involves taking them into his study at his home, setting his shotgun across his lap (loaded of course if it is a boyfriend), and questioning them on politics, morals, and general knowledge of the world.  This, of course, has never happened to my knowledge, but he sure likes to bring it up when he meets someone's significant other for the first time.  Sure scared Aaron for the few seconds he believed it might actually happened.

My mister and I posed for a picture too,


maybe not quite as cute as Opa & Grandmama, but we'll get there in 50 years or so ;)

Veronica and Cassie had a ball sitting next to each other, just goes to show how well Veronica fits in with our family as she and Cassie had never met until the evening before.  


The night was a grand success and we all enjoyed the family, friends, and fun!  I will add that Aaron has recently been complaining about my early bedtime routine, but I am trying to train myself for teaching life in the future.  He just doesn't like sitting in bed wide awake for hours while I am snoring next to him.  It's understandable.  

Over the past month I have had the honor of singing at several funerals and I received a lovely thank you card in the mail from one of the families.  They said that their mother was joyful and thankful in heaven for my beautiful voice.


No, I did not add this in to brag on myself (those of you who know me know that is not my personality.)  I only added it in to say that I believe thank you notes are the nicest and most important way you can show someone, not just that you are grateful for what they have done for you, but to show them how loved and special they are.  I have sent countless thank you notes over the years and will never stop sending them in the future.  Even if that person doesn't acknowledge the note or say they received it, in private I am sure they are grateful and touched the have been thanked in such a personal way.

Speaking of being thankful, I was thankful to FINALLY attend one of Cassie's club volleyball tournaments this weekend.  The girls form a fantastic team,


and even between games they huddled up and supported each other.  They ended up winning SILVER in the entire tournament.  I was so proud of Cassie and excited for her future volleyball endeavors.


There was one distraction during the games that no one, not even Grandmama, could ignore... a puppy!  Courtney, Cassie's volleyball coach, brought her little Shitzu puppy Millie to the game because she is too little to be home alone for so long.  She had some great babysitters, including Grandmama,


and Tad, who I am sorry to say trained her to get a little wild.


Anyone who knows Marley should not be surprised that Tad's influence on Millie will not be good influence.  But seriously, look at that puppy face, SOOOO CUTE!  Holding this little fluff pup got me really excited to get a puppy with my Mister very soon.  We are planning on getting our little boxer pup in June!


I will defend Tad's influence in non-dog related areas and say that I have been visiting the gym more frequently while he has been home.  Ever since the wedding I have been furiously trying to get back into honeymoon shape before the weather gets warm enough for shorts and the like.


Having Tad home is wonderful, I try to cherish every moment he is home now because in the future deployment or stationing in other states or countries could lead to some long periods of time during which I will see little or none of him.  I love my brother and am so proud of the choices he has made about his career.

Before Tad leaves to go back to school, we are having an even larger family dinner celebrating his recent birthday.  Leave to Tad to request, instead of the traditional cake, chocolate mousse for dessert.


Good thing we have Grandmama:)

Let's pray that the weather gets warmer so that the flowers and trees can show their stuff and we can start enjoying being outside again.  Spring, spring already!